A Soldier’s Mother

by Barbara on August 7, 2008


The Chi­nese philoso­pher Lao-Tzu once said, “A jour­ney of a thou­sand miles begins with a sin­gle step.”

This is what A Soldier’s Mother has done. The blog was estab­lished by a mother to doc­u­ment the activ­i­ties of her son, Elie, a young sol­dier. He began his three years of ser­vice in the Israeli army in March 2007 .

Read­ing the blog made me real­ize how lit­tle I really know about Israel and its cit­i­zens’ way of life. All that I know is what the West­ern news media report and that is almost always the most neg­a­tive aspects. But, of course, any­one who is in con­tact with the peo­ple who actu­ally reside in a par­tic­u­lar coun­try will hear dif­fer­ent sto­ries! Blogs, at their best, can be pow­er­ful trans­mit­ters of infor­ma­tion that lead to a more com­plete under­stand­ing of a par­tic­u­lar topic.

All moth­ers miss their sons when they go off to serve in the armed forces, no mat­ter what coun­try they rep­re­sent. And yes, deep down, each mother does bat­tle with her own fears. This blog­ging mother says, “Per­haps, despite the wor­ries, my son is right. This is an adven­ture, a new road he will take. I should be excited for him. I should be (and I am) very proud of him. In other coun­tries, 19-year-old boys are drink­ing and dri­ving and focus­ing on girls. It will be years before they grow up while here in Israel, they are given respon­si­bil­ity, life and death decisions.”

Mother shares the joy of phone calls and too-short vis­its, and the bad times when the news reports are scary. But Mother repeat­edly pushes her fears away. She “decided to be a mother who wel­comes my son home with hap­pi­ness, but, more impor­tantly, one who keeps the fears and wor­ries from over­whelm­ing him … ”

One of Mother’s recent posts, Two Rights Don’t Make a Wrong, is hon­ored with the Post of the Day Award. I invite all of our read­ers to con­sider Mother’s thought-provoking dis­cus­sion of young men and women in the Israeli army, and how her son made his own choice.

Con­grat­u­la­tions to A Soldier’s Mother!

Review by Bar­bara.

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{ 8 comments }

1 Charles Gramlich August 7, 2008 at 8:32 pm

I find that these kinds of personal log blogs are a great way to learn about the real way that people see the world. Great study for a writer.

2 Anonymous August 7, 2008 at 8:40 pm

Thank you for bringing this important voice to our attention. I’ll look forward to reading more blogs at http://www.israelisoldiersmother.blogspot.com

3 A Soldier's Mother August 7, 2008 at 11:23 pm

When you read this post (and hopefully you will), I’m glad you and others are keeping in mind the difference in culture and country. Israel is very much interested in women’s rights – both in the army and out. Women serve in many combat units, maternity leave is 100% for approx. 14 weeks and women cannot be fired during pregnancy or in the months that follow. At the same time, Israel is a Jewish country and many of its people are religous and wish to follow Jewish law. Amazingly enough, these are made not to conflict. Men can serve in units with women…or not. The goal of army service isn’t to meet one’s mate or socialize. It’s to defend and serve. Elie was asked in advance what his preference was and he responded. The army recognizes that it made a mistake when it assigned him to a unit with women and yet didn’t want to damage either Elie or the women coming into the unit.

There was no reaspon to punish Elie because he had done nothing wrong. The army had found a way to compromise to meet the needs of both…and then it messed up. I hope you all will continue to follow my blog and Elie’s service in the army. It’s been an amazing journey of discovery for me and as read back from the beginning sometimes, I am amazed how far we have come and can only wonder how far we have yet to go.

A Soldier’s Mother
http://www.israelisoldiersmother.blogspot.com

4 barbara August 8, 2008 at 3:24 am

Congratulations to you, Soldier's Mother !
I know very well about cultural differences, from my own "mixed " ethnic background, and also as a US expat living in Europe.

It is refreshing to see life,culture and everything else from a personal viewpoint and not some pre-fabricated media news.Of course,it will be a pleasure for me to follow your blog.

Wishing you,Elie & your family all the best.

5 Akelamalu August 8, 2008 at 10:20 am

Excellent post, excellent choice Jud.

6 Mimi Lenox August 9, 2008 at 4:50 pm

This was an awesome read. What a well deserved win and intriguing story.

7 Bud Weiser, WTIT August 9, 2008 at 5:34 pm

Could not be a better choice, Barbara! And the effort in the post by A Soldier’s Mother, plus her taking the time to share with us on TRB more of her thoughts here on our Comments page is awesome!

8 barbara August 12, 2008 at 3:04 am

Hi everyone,
Thanks again for your encouragement, my friends.
I just feel it, this Mom is just fantastic.

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