A Soldier’s Mother

by Barbara on August 7, 2008


The Chi­nese philoso­pher Lao-Tzu once said, “A jour­ney of a thou­sand miles begins with a sin­gle step.”

This is what A Soldier’s Mother has done. The blog was estab­lished by a mother to doc­u­ment the activ­i­ties of her son, Elie, a young sol­dier. He began his three years of ser­vice in the Israeli army in March 2007 .

Read­ing the blog made me real­ize how lit­tle I really know about Israel and its cit­i­zens’ way of life. All that I know is what the West­ern news media report and that is almost always the most neg­a­tive aspects. But, of course, any­one who is in con­tact with the peo­ple who actu­ally reside in a par­tic­u­lar coun­try will hear dif­fer­ent sto­ries! Blogs, at their best, can be pow­er­ful trans­mit­ters of infor­ma­tion that lead to a more com­plete under­stand­ing of a par­tic­u­lar topic.

All moth­ers miss their sons when they go off to serve in the armed forces, no mat­ter what coun­try they rep­re­sent. And yes, deep down, each mother does bat­tle with her own fears. This blog­ging mother says, “Per­haps, despite the wor­ries, my son is right. This is an adven­ture, a new road he will take. I should be excited for him. I should be (and I am) very proud of him. In other coun­tries, 19-year-old boys are drink­ing and dri­ving and focus­ing on girls. It will be years before they grow up while here in Israel, they are given respon­si­bil­ity, life and death decisions.”

Mother shares the joy of phone calls and too-short vis­its, and the bad times when the news reports are scary. But Mother repeat­edly pushes her fears away. She “decided to be a mother who wel­comes my son home with hap­pi­ness, but, more impor­tantly, one who keeps the fears and wor­ries from over­whelm­ing him … ”

One of Mother’s recent posts, Two Rights Don’t Make a Wrong, is hon­ored with the Post of the Day Award. I invite all of our read­ers to con­sider Mother’s thought-provoking dis­cus­sion of young men and women in the Israeli army, and how her son made his own choice.

Con­grat­u­la­tions to A Soldier’s Mother!

Review by Bar­bara.

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{ 8 comments }

1 Charles Gramlich August 7, 2008 at 8:32 pm

I find that these kinds of per­sonal log blogs are a great way to learn about the real way that peo­ple see the world. Great study for a writer.

2 Anonymous August 7, 2008 at 8:40 pm

Thank you for bring­ing this impor­tant voice to our atten­tion. I’ll look for­ward to read­ing more blogs at http://www.israelisoldiersmother.blogspot.com

3 A Soldier's Mother August 7, 2008 at 11:23 pm

When you read this post (and hope­fully you will), I’m glad you and oth­ers are keep­ing in mind the dif­fer­ence in cul­ture and coun­try. Israel is very much inter­ested in women’s rights — both in the army and out. Women serve in many com­bat units, mater­nity leave is 100% for approx. 14 weeks and women can­not be fired dur­ing preg­nancy or in the months that fol­low. At the same time, Israel is a Jew­ish coun­try and many of its peo­ple are religous and wish to fol­low Jew­ish law. Amaz­ingly enough, these are made not to con­flict. Men can serve in units with women…or not. The goal of army ser­vice isn’t to meet one’s mate or social­ize. It’s to defend and serve. Elie was asked in advance what his pref­er­ence was and he responded. The army rec­og­nizes that it made a mis­take when it assigned him to a unit with women and yet didn’t want to dam­age either Elie or the women com­ing into the unit.

There was no rea­spon to pun­ish Elie because he had done noth­ing wrong. The army had found a way to com­pro­mise to meet the needs of both…and then it messed up. I hope you all will con­tinue to fol­low my blog and Elie’s ser­vice in the army. It’s been an amaz­ing jour­ney of dis­cov­ery for me and as read back from the begin­ning some­times, I am amazed how far we have come and can only won­der how far we have yet to go.

A Soldier’s Mother
http://www.israelisoldiersmother.blogspot.com

4 barbara August 8, 2008 at 3:24 am

Con­grat­u­la­tions to you, Soldier’s Mother !
I know very well about cul­tural dif­fer­ences, from my own “mixed ” eth­nic back­ground, and also as a US expat liv­ing in Europe.

It is refresh­ing to see life,culture and every­thing else from a per­sonal view­point and not some pre-fabricated media news.Of course,it will be a plea­sure for me to fol­low your blog.

Wish­ing you,Elie & your fam­ily all the best.

5 Akelamalu August 8, 2008 at 10:20 am

Excel­lent post, excel­lent choice Jud.

6 Mimi Lenox August 9, 2008 at 4:50 pm

This was an awe­some read. What a well deserved win and intrigu­ing story.

7 Bud Weiser, WTIT August 9, 2008 at 5:34 pm

Could not be a bet­ter choice, Bar­bara! And the effort in the post by A Soldier’s Mother, plus her tak­ing the time to share with us on TRB more of her thoughts here on our Com­ments page is awesome!

8 barbara August 12, 2008 at 3:04 am

Hi every­one,
Thanks again for your encour­age­ment, my friends.
I just feel it, this Mom is just fantastic.

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