ilovemylife

by JHSEsq


Red-headed, white-skinned, ten­der, provoca­tive. All words to describe one very vocal blog­ger who chose to peel back the lay­ers of color for all to see. In her own life. On her blog. Most deci­siviely her blog. While most of her writ­ings could never be cat­e­go­rized as sub­tle and are usu­ally starkly polit­i­cal and infor­ma­tive, this post blos­somed into a per­sonal realm. What I admire about her writ­ing is not so much the details and sta­tis­tics and broadly scru­ti­nized argu­ments for the polit­i­cal process — although that is surely com­mend­able in itself –but the way she lays it bare with­out apology.

Our post of the day enti­tled Legal To Have Skin Color and Hair is an expose on racism, love, and hap­pi­ness far from the scrutiny of pol­i­tics. Quot­ing from Sport of Nature by Nadine Gordimer, we see what is in her heart and what once came out of her mouth in a far­away cer­e­mony once upon a con­tro­ver­sial time in her life. It is clearly beau­ti­ful prose. “Lying beside him, look­ing at pale hands, thighs, belly: see­ing her­self as unfin­ished, left off, some­where. She exam­ines his body minutely and with­out shame, and he wakes to see her at it, and smiles with­out telling her why: she is the first not to pre­tend the dif­fer­ent colours and tex­tures of their being is not an awe­some fas­ci­na­tion. How can it be otherwise? ”

She has just flipped the switch and crossed the purely per­sonal line. If only the polit­i­cal process she so boldly exposes could do the same.

Con­grat­u­la­tions ilove­mylife, you have posted The Ris­ing Blogger’s Post of The Day.

Review writ­ten by MIMI LENOX.

{ 4 comments }

1 ilovemylife January 14, 2008 at 9:05 pm

I have always said that what I want written on my tombstone is “All I ever wanted was to be understood”. So this simple acknowledgement of my post that is about my personal experience and enlightenment regarding bigotry in a world of pretentiousness is an example of feeling understood. To stop the pretense about the visual differences of how we look is a start. We look different. And it is a fascination. Not a reason to feel insecure or finger point. Shades of skin and texture of hair have been allowed to get in the way of celebrating the beauty of who we are, what we see in the mirror and in the person in front of us. Or never met.

“To be nobody-but-yourself in a world which is doing it best, night and day, to make you everybody else ~ means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight and never stop fighting.” e e cummings

Thank you for reading and acknowledging my post!

2 Charles Gramlich January 15, 2008 at 8:13 am

A strong post. Definetely worthy of acknowledgement

3 Mimi Lenox January 15, 2008 at 3:17 pm

Congratulations. I loved this entry. Beautifully written. And thank you for introducing me to Gordimer’s work.
It was a tender and strong read.

4 Gunfighter January 29, 2008 at 7:35 pm

Brava!

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